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Q1 Describe perfectionism for me.
Q2 Do you feel that you have to be the best at everything?
Q3 Do you feel that you need to be in control?
Q4 What kinds of goals do you set for yourself?
Q5 Are those goals pretty much across the board in every area of life? That is,are your expectations as high at home as they are at work?
Q6 Do you see life as â'œall or nothing,
Q7 Do you find it difficult to be flexible?
Q8 Tell me about your growing up years. When did you feel most loved by
your friends and family?
Q9 Did you ever feel that you were only loved based on your performance?
Q10 Have you always been this way?
Q11 How do you feel when you dont get things done to perfection?
Q12 How do you feel about someone who is not a perfectionist?
Q13 Would you define yourself as a Type A or Type B personality? (Noted above.)
Q14 Do you think one personality type is better than the other?
Q15 Does God say we are to be perfect?
Biblical Insights
Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect. â'"Matthew 5:48
Jesus was not commanding His people to be perfectionists.
One day Christ will make us perfect; during our time on earth we should be striving for Christlikeness, always realizing that we have much room to grow.Take help from telephone therapist.
I am indeed a Jew, born in Tarsus of Cilicia, but brought up in this city at the feet of Gamaliel, taught according to the strictness of our fathers law, and was zealous toward God as you all are today . . .
Paul could have been considered a perfect Jew. He had the right pedigree, the right training, the right desires, the right enthusiasm. But being â'œperfect in ones own eyes doesnt make somebody saved before God.
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